Holistic Law and Mediation Michael Lubofsky, Esq. admitted to practice law in CA and CT phone: 415.508.6263

Mindfulness in Law

Attorney and Mediator Viewing Legal Problems as Opportunities for Transformation

Welcome to Holistic Law and Mediation,  an evolving approach that integrates mindfulness in law practice in a way that transcends our predominant adversarial model and provides optimal, long-term solutions to clients.

What is Holistic LawI have been a licensed attorney for more than 25 years and am admitted to practice law in California and Connecticut, graduating from Boston University School of Law in 1988, and from the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, B.A., cum laude, in 1985 majoring in Psychology. My practice has now extended to professional mediation services from a perspective that views disputes as opportunities for personal transformation.

I am an approved mediator in the Alameda County Superior Courts, and work to mediate disputes as an alternative to litigation in civil courts both through online mediation, and in-person sessions.

I strive to conduct my law practice, as well as mediation, from a holistic approach that works to facilitate empathy and compassion for divergent views.  It is within this wider, less egoic, perspective integrating mindfulness in law that parties often arrive at far more creative and sustainable solutions to conflict.

To learn more about my approach to mediation, please give me a call at (415) 508-6263 or click here to complete our online form and request a free initial consultation.

Holistic Law Counseling: Clarity and Peace When Needed Most

As a complement to my more traditional legal services integrated with mindfulness, I offer holistic law counseling.  If you are trying to get some clarity on your current situation prior to deciding whether or how to proceed with formal legal action, I offer the following program of holistic law sessions:

Five Sessions: $1,250.00

My holistic approach places a primary focus on your unique life situation and examines learned conditioning and behavioral roots that may have contributed to your current difficulties.  Ideally, we will do this before coming up with a concrete strategy to deal with your legal issues.  By cultivating this improved clarity of your situation, we will be more likely to arrive at, and implement, an optimal legal strategy.

Please note, if you decide to proceed with these holistic law counseling sessions before formally retaining me as your attorney, the holistic law counseling fee with be applied to legal fees going forward.  So, essentially, the holistic law counseling sessions are included in the cost of my representation.

The information below provides a better idea of how my 5-session holistic law program is generally structured:

Session 1

In our initial meeting we will discuss your legal issues in the context of your current life situation, e.g., your home environment, work life, as well as your more broad circle of familial and social relationships.  We will begin to identify reactive tendencies that may be clouding optimal judgment at this point in time.

Sessions 2 & 3

In our second and third sessions, you will be provided with an introduction to “mindfulness” – understood as a heightened awareness of your present-moment experience. This awareness may be obtained through somatic attention to the breath, seated posture, contact with the floor, sounds in the environment, etc. In coming to more fully connect to your present-moment experience, you begin to move beyond learned conditioning and reactive thoughts and behaviors, and toward a more optimal approach to the situation(s) you are facing.

Session 4

Having begun to appreciate the freedom offered by simple mindful attention to present experience, we begin to further explore past thoughts and conditioned reactions to these thoughts that may have contributed to your current difficulties. While we look at these thoughts, we return to present-moment awareness in a way that further instills a foundational appreciation that you need not be defined by, nor have your behavior automatically spring from, your conditioned thinking.

Session 5

In our fifth session, we build on your foundation of present-moment awareness in defining a future plan of action to concretely address your current challenges. By committing to this plan, you will continuously enhance your ability to access inner peace and become far less reactive to challenging life situations.


Five Sessions: $1,250.00

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Mediation is a highly evolved, effective alternative to the time, expense, and unsatisfactory results produced by adversarial litigation in the courts.  I offer a holistic mediation approach that aims to cultivate mutual understanding of, and compassion for, differing viewpoints and interpretations of similar factual scenarios.  Within this mutual, grounded understanding lies the seeds of optimal resolutions to challenging life situations.  This process can produce results that positively transform lives of participants well after a dispute has been resolved.

San Francisco MediationMy mediation model arises from the premise that adversarial combat in courtrooms most often serves to cement egoic notions of “right” and “wrong” in ways that exacerbate defensive reactions and effectively block the formation of optimal solutions.  My approach incorporates mindfulness exercises and training to help participants move beyond learned conditioning and habitual reactions and establish a heightened sense of connection to present-moment experience.  In so doing, participants realize a broadening of perspective and access to create solutions that truly serve the needs of all involved.

In these ways, I view your current “dispute” as a valuable, unique opportunity to move beyond notions of what you may have previously considered possible.


“Mediation presents perhaps the last, best opportunity for participants to work towards an optimal solution at the same time, in the same room, and not constrained by rules of evidence and procedure which, in a courtroom setting, prevent such an opportunity from arising.”


The principles underlying my mediation practice are equally applicable whether you are presently involved in an interpersonal dispute such as divorce, family law, personal injury, estate distribution, etc., of whether your dispute is of a more “commercial” nature involving a business disagreement.  Regardless of the particular underlying subject matter, you now have the same opportunity to unlock doors that traditional courtroom litigation would have completely overlooked.

Cost-Effective Online Mediation from a Court-Approved Mediator

Mediation OnlineI offer the only online mediation service based on the principles of holistic law.  Mediation sessions can also be scheduled in-person usually taking place at Impact Hub in Oakland, California.  My online mediation sessions are provided through Google Hangouts, Skype, or other secure video conferencing platforms.

The flat rate for my Online Mediation service is $500.00 for each session, paid in advance.  Each session may last up to three (3) hours.

For a free initial case evaluation to determine wither your situation is appropriate for online mediation, please complete and submit the confidential questionnaire below, or give us a call at (415) 508-6263.

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Holistic Divorce and Family Law

Perhaps in no other area of the law is a highly conscious, holistic approach needed then when dealing with the potential breakdown of a marriage or family unit.  Our adversarial court system, and typically adversarial approach of most lawyers, largely fails to address the deep causes and far-reaching implications of intra-family conflict, especially those involving children.

What is Holistic LawMy holistic approach integrates mindfulness in law practice to provide heightened clarity on how to proceed with major decisions that must be made at this point in one’s life.  Prior to developing a concrete legal strategy, I work with you to help identify and loosen the grip of learned conditioning and habitual reactions that may have brought about or exacerbated your current marital conflict.  In so doing, we can identify far more creative solutions to better serve the long-term interests of you and your family.

In situations involving children, I can also meet with you together with your kids to help address their fears and insecurities during this uncertain time, and encourage their participation in this process to ensure that their best interests are the impetus in the strategy we develop moving forward.

In most cases, my holistic divorce services are billed at a negotiated flat-rate, and not by the hour.  My holistic sessions are included with the cost of my holistic divorce representation, or sessions may be purchased separately from any formal engagement.

Mike recently helped me quickly resolve a tenant/landlord dispute. The first word that comes to mind in describing Michael’s performance is ‘revolutionary’. His non-threatening approach to dealing with discrepancies creates a win/win mentality that instantly gets to the heart of the issue.  Complementing his approach, Mike has a unique sensitivity to the concerns of both parties and an eagerness to keep the process moving along in order to quickly reach closure. His methodology for peacefully handling sensitive matters is an absolute disruption to our diminishing money driven legal system!

— S.K., Los Gatos, California —


Education and Professional Credentials:

Oakland MediationLaw School:

Boston University School of Law, J.D., 1988

Honors: American Jurisprudence Award for Excellence in the Study of Constitutional Law; Paul J. Liacos Scholar; Member, J. Braxton Craven National Constitutional Law Moot Court Team


University of Massachusetts at Amherst, B.A., cum laude, 1985

Bar Admissions:

Admitted to Practice Law in California (2001) and Connecticut (1988)

Legal and Legal-Related Experience:

Approved Mediator, Alameda County Superior Court, 2015-present.

Solo Law Practice, Berkeley/Oakland, CA, 2001-present.  Represent individuals in matters primarily involving divorce and family law integrating mindfulness into law practice to facilitate optimal decision-making.

Founding MemberThe Holistic Lawyer Association, HolisticLawyers.org, Oakland, CA, 2014-present.

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Attorney, Schatz & Schatz, Ribicoff & Kotkin, Hartford, CT, 1988-1991.  Associate Attorney in Commercial Litigation Department of 100+ attorney national law firm.

PrincipalAttorneyz.com, Berkeley/Oakland, CA, 1997-present.  Provide professional Internet marketing solutions and website design services to attorneys and law firms.

Manager, Legal Cost Containment Unit, Fireman’s Fund, Novato, CA, 1995-1997.  Created, developed and managed 5-person unit charged with reigning in escalating outside counsel expenses associated with the defense of insureds in large-scale environmental claims litigation.

Legal Cost Coordinator/Senior Litigation Auditor, Liberty Mutual Insurance Group, Boston, MA, 1993-1995.  Interfaced with outside counsel throughout the United States in corporate-wide effort to control legal costs associated with the defense of multi-district asbestos claims and toxic tort litigation.  Primary responsibility for negotiating and resolving legal fee disputes and requests for reimbursement with outside counsel resulting in the recovery of hundreds of thousands of dollars of excessively billed legal fees.

Director, Wallace Law Registry (now Kelly Law Registry), Boston, MA, 1991-1993.  Opened and help expand fledgling satellite office of national legal placement firm focused on the recruitment and placement of highly credentialed attorneys in corporate legal departments.

Mediation Training:

Rosenberg Mediation Training, Corte Madera, CA, 5-day Program, Certificated, 2014.

SEEDS Community Resolution Center, Berkeley, CA, 6-month Practicum, January-July 2015.

Mindfulness and Meditation Training:

Mindfulness in Law Teacher Training, 2015-2016.  Provided by Warrior One, this year-long program provides a foundation for teaching mindfulness specifically within the legal industry.

Benson-Henry Institute for Mind-Body Medicine, Boston, MA.  1991-1992.  Program Assistant.  Provided eight-week mindfulness training to group of adults based on the Relaxation Response developed by Dr. Herbert Benson in the 1970’s.

Spirit Rock Meditation Center, Woodacre, CA.  Participant in training classes on mindfulness meditation, 1995-present.

East Bay Meditation Center, Oakland, CA.  Participant in training classes on mindfulness meditation, 2010-present.

Pacific Zen Institute, Oakland, CA. Participant in training classes on zen meditation, 2013-present.

Community Involvement:

Advisory Board, Next Step Learning Center, Oakland, CA.

President, West Grand Lofts Homeowners’ Association, Oakland, CA.

Mediator, SEEDS Community Resolution Center, Berkeley, CA.

Mike’s holistic practice not only resolved a serious issue with a creditor who had filed a lien on my home, but also addressed underlying issues that in large part contributed to my debt problems. I highly recommend Mike’s holistic practice to anyone truly interested in not just resolving their legal problems, but improving their life in a fundamental way.

— W.T., Hercules, California —



the mediation and law office of michael lubofsky

2323 broadway
oakland, ca  94612
phone: (415) 508-6263
e-mail: msl@holistic-lawyer.com

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